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On the hypocrisy of Attitude’s “issues issue” 1

Editorial
Christopher Bryant
September 8, 2010
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Two weeks ago I read an interview with the editor of Attitude, Matthew Todd, in the Observer. Todd was talking up the magazine’s latest issue and how it addressed the “taboo” of gay men’s mental health issues. This is how Todd summed up the message: “It’s about low self-esteem and the self-hating gay man. But the time has come to find the strength to face it and realise that, while it’s not our fault this has been inflicted on us, we do need to deal with it.” My first thought was that it was a bit rich for the editor a lifestyle magazine to defer the blame for low self-esteem in so cavalier a manner. After all, the mainstream gay press is dominated by the muscular physique culture and this inevitably promotes low self-esteem in a great many people. But on second thought I decided this was rather uncharitable, and that it was nevertheless an important issue to raise in a mainstream publication. I didn’t think any more about it until I saw the cover of the “issue’s issue” and read Todd’s editor’s letter.

The edition, Todd writes in this letter, is “the most important we have ever published”. Its cover features the topless Danny Miller, a young straight actor who is playing gay in the ITV soap Emmerdale. According to Todd, this is because young readers “relate to his difficult storyline”. Really? That is not a reason; it’s an excuse. If this is their most important issue the cover should by necessity reflect that. Why not run with an interview with someone like, say, Stephen Fry, who has been through his own mental health issues? It’s not as if the cover has to feature a topless celebrity. The unappealing mug of David Cameron was on there for the election special after all. Todd then states that there are interviews with six gay men between 17 and 60 on the subject of happiness. He congratulates himself with the claim, “I make it my business folks, that we don’t just feature buff models and celebrities – tell your cynical friends”. This is disingenuous. The identity of a magazine is not defined by its occasional articles. It is defined by the cover image, the features, and the photography that dominates its pages. In other words, buff models and celebrities. And the line “tell your cynical friends” is nothing more than a smokescreen.

An editor’s letter is invariably about selling the issue, which is fair enough. Attitude is a commercial magazine. So what of the main article, ‘How to be Gay & Happy’, also written by Todd? “We live in a commercialised world where all the messages suggest you have to have a perfect body, be a superhot sex machine, be famous, be rich, be better, always climb higher and be in constant competition with everybody else.” Well, that pretty much sums up the modus operandi of the mainstream gay press for a start. Todd then goes on to say that, for gay men, the question of happiness is “a particularly prickly subject as our enemies have always spread the disgusting hateful lie that you can’t be gay and be happy”. What? This isn’t addressing the issue. It’s juvenile whining. It’s somebody else’s fault. We’re the victims.  Etc. At some level everyone is victim to the demands of mainstream culture, whether they are gay or straight. What matters is how one manages that. To claim victim status is to avoid responsibility for one’s actions, and surely claiming that responsibility is what this should be about?

The word happy is used throughout as an idealised goal, but it is used as if there is an agreed upon meaning. At no point does Todd feel it necessary to address what it actually means. Instead he summarises a few books on the subject and translates the conclusions into some sort of armchair pop psychology. Own the problem. Heal yourself. Why is this a problem, you might ask? It is a problem because in the end it is not about living your life, but instead about adopting an alternative lifestyle defined by bullet points. The devil is not in the detail but in the overall message. The key part of the feature article is the “things you can do” list at the end. Take responsibility for yourself. Accept your body. Move on from being a teenager. Stop being so judgemental. What it should say is ‘stop reading the gay press because it condones all these things’.

The whole enterprise is, ultimately, meretricious. It only matters if you take it at face value. Attitude, like GT, is essentially a teen magazine aimed at grown gay men. Its emphasis is on dating, teen-pop and fashion. The occasional article on politics or adoption does not negate this fact. Perhaps that is why the article ends with a laid-back defensiveness: If you think it’s twaddle forget about it or toss it. This is further smokescreen to forestall criticism. This is a serious issue and it must be taken seriously and not at face value. The very idea that there is an ideal state of being called happiness is an unrealistic objective and therefore self-destructive. The article consequently exerts precisely the sort of pressure that Todd criticises when writing about our “commercialised world”.

It is all too easy to play the urbane sophisticate who accepts that this is what the mainstream gay press is all about. Perhaps to work from inside the belly of the proverbial beast is the only way to get one’s message across. Attitude has certainly broadened its scope under Todd’s editorship and he should be congratulated for that. But an issue such as mental health should lead an editor to call in the experts instead of rehashing talk-show clichés. The only really helpful page is the one that lists which groups to contact should you need help. The “issues issue” of Attitude is an irresponsible approach to a serious problem. It is ultimately a placebo.

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The striking down of Prop 8 & what that means to the rest of us 1

On August 4, 2010, Vaughn R. Walker, Chief Judge of the US District Court for the Northern District of California, overturned a regressive article of legislation known as Proposition 8. In a landmark ruling he deemed it unconstitutional. Proposition 8 reinforced the definition of marriage as a legal union between a man and a woman as outlined in the 1996 Defense of Marriage Act. It countered the legalisation of same-sex marriages in California in 2008. Why? Apparently marriage needed defending because, say, if same-sex couples were given equal rights under the law, what would stop dog lovers from marrying their dogs? This of course would lead to social anarchy and institutionalised perversion in much the same way that marijuana, as Richard Nixon liked to say, was a halfway house to something worse. As usual the Christian Right ignored the separation of Church and State, the bedrock of the US Constitution, and invoked the law of Leviticus, that Old Testament tract which states that a man who lies with a man should be stoned to death. With actual stones, that is, not marijuana. Now that Prop 8 is dead, what does this ruling mean to the United States and what, in turn, are its geopolitical ramifications?

What the ruling means to the US is that its law and its rhetoric are, in this instance, in accord. As the final ruling states, “Plaintiffs have demonstrated by overwhelming evidence that Proposition 8 violates their due process and equal protection rights and that they will continue to suffer these constitutional violations until state officials cease enforcement of Proposition 8.” The protection of minorities is enshrined in the principle of democracy but the fact that Proposition 8 went to the ballot box makes a sham of this. This is exactly why John Adams wrote that, to protect against such circumstances, America should be a nation of laws and not men. That said, the upshot is that the case for a federal law legalising same-sex marriage is now set to go to the Supreme Court. And this is where the rest of the world is concerned; or, at the very least, Western democracies.

As a result of how the wrangles between disparate social and political pressure groups played out over Proposition 8, the sense that there is a chasm between what the US body politic claims to believe, and what it does, widens. The inalienable rights that Jefferson trumpeted, the pursuit of life, liberty and the pursuit of happiness, have once again proved to be subject to strict qualification. This rift is what so frustrates observers of the US. This is significant in geopolitical terms because, as Mark Hertsgaard notes in his book, The Eagle’s Shadow: Why America Fascinates and Infuriates the World, “America receives a disproportionate amount of coverage from news media around the world, reinforcing foreigners’ sense of living always in the Eagle’s shadow.” This is why the debate over Proposition 8 matters, not just to California and the United States, but also on the global stage of human rights.

The greater question is simple: you either believe in equality or you don’t. You either believe in freedom or you don’t. The problem with such grand words is that they need to be defined before they can mean anything at all. Freedom from what, and to do what? Equality with what, and for whom? There has to be a baseline against which these words are measured before they can become workable ideas.

And this is where the Christian Right and the Mormons enter the field of engagement. They hark back not to the secular democracy enshrined in the US Constitution but to that notoriously contradictory of rulebooks, the Bible. This is the baseline they want to enforce. When the language of faith enters into political debate the protections guaranteed by secular law are undermined because fact is no longer the cornerstone. As Gore Vidal once observed, “to ignore the absence of evidence is the basis of true faith.” In the aftermath of the decision, the Christian Right is claiming that Walker should have recused himself from the case because of his sexuality. His sexuality is not on public record, no matter what the blowhards at the American Family Association claim, and at best, as Steven Petrow notes in the Advocate, is “an open secret”. That Walker’s decision follows the letter of the law, and that his sexuality is beside the point, is irrelevant to their quest to take away the rights of anyone who does not subscribe to their prescriptive beliefs.

And what exactly are those beliefs? Leviticus is a key text in the fight against ‘permissiveness’. It is perhaps the most ludicrous book of the Old Testament. It is essentially a rulebook over which both sides of the debate argue like schoolchildren. Of course it is fun to challenge those who quote Leviticus on homosexuality by reciting its prescriptions against, say, wearing mixed fibres, or the penalty of being stoned to death for those who criticise their parents. But in the end this is playground politics. Neither side understands the subject at hand. The Christian Right hurls quotes from the Old Testament at anything they don’t like but fail to understand that, as Karen Armstrong observes in her remarkable book The Bible: A Biography, that the law of Jesus reinterprets the Mosaic law that preceded it.

When Paul quotes biblical stories to instruct his converts, he interpreted them in a wholly novel way. Adam now prefigured Christ, but where Adam brought sin into the world, Jesus had put humanity into a correct relationship with God.

In other words, the law of the Old Testament, the Mosaic covenant, “was only a temporary, interim measure”. Leviticus is an historically specific document that was designed to make sure the Jews in Babylon did not turn away from their jealous patriarchal god toward the more fun-loving sexually liberated goddesses that were available. There are few texts without contexts but the Christian crusaders like to quote Leviticus when it suits and are not about to be interrupted by the obvious, much preferring the convenient.

The Christian Right does not even understand its own subject, and this is a fundamental failing. But then this vocal minority is not interested in ideas that fail to reinforce their prejudices. They are more like hacks than Christians. All that being said, Paul is positively unhinged on the question of sexuality. Why they don’t head to his outpourings on the subject is curious. Nevertheless, the very fact of the Constitution, and the separation of Church and State, should separate this noise from serious political debate. Yet it does not.

It was the Church of Latter Day Saints, the Mormons, who lead the fight to enshrine Proposition 8 into law. Mormons are Christians of sorts. Their central text, the Book of Mormon, was essentially written to Americanise the Christian message. It goes something like this: an angel called Moroni took a weekender to the New World and told a chap called Joseph Smith the location of a set of golden plates on which were recorded chats that the angel had with … no, wait for it … yes folks, Jesus, the saviour himself! And there was a nifty tinge of American exceptionalism to Moroni’s enterprise: in a new found and unique land, it was said, a chosen people would fulfill the mission of Christ – that old chestnut – as well as enjoy the delights of bigamy.

How this bizarre cult had a decisive effect on the secular law of one of the largest states in the US is scandalous. And this is what frustrates observers of the US political machine. It demonstrates a chasm between the rhetoric and the execution of that rhetoric. And how does the world see the US? This is what Mark Hertsgaard discovered when researching his book The Eagle’s Shadow: “It feels no obligation to obey international law, it often pushes other countries around, forcing on them policies and sometimes tyrannical leaders that serve only American interests, and then, if they resist too much, it may bomb obedience into them with cruise missiles.” And this, significantly, was before 9/11, and the bullish foreign policy of the Bush administration.

The United States is far too diverse a country to make generalisations. Nevertheless, generalisations are made, and this is because of the image of the US exported through its media and its foreign policy. Freedom does not mean the freedom to do as one pleases, or to say, “you’re wither with us or against it”, and for all debate to end there. This is posturing and not politics. But as anyone who has visited the US knows, the exported image and the reality of the country do not mesh.

So what now? The defeat of Prop 8 is a great step forward for gay rights as well as for human rights because it reinforces the understanding of equality before the law. This should be embraced and celebrated. At the same time it is important for Americans to understand why the rest of the world continues to be resentful toward it. The election of Obama, which was received with a sigh of relief by so many in Britain, cannot dispel this. The prevailing view is still that, as the Washington correspondent for the Independent once observed, “no-one wraps self interest in moral superiority quite like the Americans do”. With the Christian Right praying and Fox News braying there is much to be watchful against. Their hate is an engine that knows no rest.

In This Shirt, The Irrepressibles 0

In This Shirt
The Irrepressibles
V2 Coop
• August 29, 2010
Dir:
Roy Raz
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If Antony & the Johnsons and Patrick Wolf had a lovechild with Vanessa Mae, The Irrepressibles’  ‘In This Shirt’ would no doubt be the result. A friend of mine posted a link to the video on facebook yesterday and it quickly spread through the facebookverse.

The Irrepressibles is a ten-piece orchestral ensemble. ‘In This Shirt’ is a haunting song and the video reflects that. The peanut crunching crowd on YouTube may ask, ‘what does it mean?’, and get rattled by the homosexuality in the song as well as the video, but that is just graffiti. There is a tension between the images, which trade on the sexualized commercialism of mainstream gay culture as well as MTV pop, and the emotion of the song.  The meaning is in that.

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The Loving Quilt: Honoring LGBT Love 0

[B]logophiles
David Alex Nahmod
December 18, 2010
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In the aftermath of Proposition 8, California’s now infamous gay marriage ban, many in the LGBT community were heartsick. Some felt hopeless – it seemed that our relationships, and our love, would never be accepted by society. Leave it to the good people of Marriage Equality USA to make lemonade out of lemons.

When one hears of Marriage Equality USA, Molly Mc Kay is the face the world usually sees. This energetic, decidedly upbeat woman has been seen around the world in photographs and on network news shows campaigning for Marriage Equality in a traditional wedding dress. She and wife Davina were married during that brief window when gay marriage was legal in California. After Prop 8 passed, their marriage was upheld by the court. Molly and Davina’s dream came true, yet Mc Kay continues to campaign for others. On the day that Prop 8 passed, Molly and a male friend stationed themselves at the busy corner of Powell and Market in downtown San Francisco. Their mood was celebratory: California may have been (temporarily) lost, but Sweden had just passed Marriage Equality on a national level. Mc Kay was overjoyed by the news from Scandinavia.  Not waiting for other activists to join them, Mc Kay and her friend greeted passerbys, sharing the news about Sweden. They shook people’s hands, sang songs of love, and changed people’s minds.

Molly’s infectious, positive attitude has been the driving force behind Marriage Equality USA. It rubs off on everyone who crosses her path, including Maya Scott-Chung, the Creative Director behind Marriage Equality USA’s Loving Quilt Project. Patterned slightly after the Names Project AIDS Memorial Quilt of two decades past, the Loving Quilt will be an equally massive, international project. People from around the world are designing quilt panels to commemorate loving, committed, LGBT relationships. It’s a project that’s near & dear to Scott-Chung’s heart.

“Like many LGBT couples, we have many anniversaries,” Scott-Chung said of her marriage to wife Mei Beck. “In August 1999, we registered as Domestic Partners in San Francisco.

“Mei Beck proposed marriage on Oct 31st 2003. One Feb 13th, 2004, we became one of the 4,038 couples who were married during the Winter of Love. Our marriage was annulled in August 2004 by the CA State Supreme Court. We became Domestic Partners again on on August 20th, 2004 to protect our daughter Luna, who was born on Oct. 4th, 2004. We were married once more a few days before Prop 8 passed on Nov 4th, 2008. We were hurt and angry when the Proposition passed, but our marriage was upheld in the Spring of 2009. Yet like many LGBT couples, we remain in legal limbo.” This mind numbing seesaw is a song that many LGBT couples have been forced to sing.

In spite of the far right’s best efforts, most Americans have entered into a quiet, casual acceptance of LGBT people. Marriage, considered by many to be a holy sacrament, remains the one sticking point from which many straight people say they will not budge. As Molly McKay and Maya Scott-Chung so aptly put it, opening people’s hearts and minds is the key. And so, with Scott-Chung, in the driver’s seat, Marriage Equality USA began soliciting and presenting it’s first Loving Quilt panels.

The first showing occurred in February 2007, during National Freedom to Marry Week, at San Francisco City Hall, which was also the third anniversary of the now legendary Freedom to Love, the initial same sex weddings marathon of 2004. Scott-Chung reports that the unveiling was also intentionally scheduled to coincide with the 40th anniversary of Loving VS Virginia. This landmark Supreme Court decision of June 12th, 1967 lifted the bans on interracial marriage that were, amazingly, still in place up to that time.

“Many of the quilt stories feature the voices and visions of interracial families and mixed heritage people,” says Scott-Chung. “Those first thirty panels included photos and text that reflect the diversity of our families and communities as well as the urgency of this issue.”

Ironically, that first showing, and subsequent showings of additional Loving Quilt panels occurred only one block from the CA State Supreme Court building where Justices upheld Proposition 8, and where the Federal Prop 8 lawsuit is now being heard. The outcome of that trial should be known shortly. Whatever the Judge decides is bound to be appealed by the losing side, and the case is most likely going to work its way to the Federal Supreme Court. Meanwhile, efforts by Marriage Equality USA to get Prop 8 overturned at the ballot box, and to implement marriage equality worldwide, will continue.

Since it’s premiere, the Quilt has had showings outside of San Francisco – Scott-Chung encourages people from around the world to contribute panels.

Scott-Chung, who is a co-founder of Baby Buds, a support & peer education group for LGBT parents & extended families, is now creating a website and blog that will document the entire history of The Loving Quilt. She is also creating an online manual for organizers to be able to create their own quilts and to use the quilt as a grassroots public education, art and organization tool. No less than Laura Bush has expressed her support for Marriage Equality. The former First Lady, certainly an unexpected ally, believes that the day will come when marriage equality is a reality.

To help expedite that great day by creating your own quilt, or to offer support to the project, please contact Maya Scott-Chung at

quilt@marriageequality.org

To support other works by Scott Chung or Molly Mc Kay, please visit:

www.MarriageEquality.org

Jane Hilton’s Dead Eagle Trail on the road 0

Dead Eagle Trail: America’s Twenty-First Century Cowboys
Jane Hilton
Exhibition • Crane Kalman Gallery, 38 Kensington Gardens
North Laine, Brighton, BN1 4AL
14 July – 29 August 2010
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In April I interviewed photographer Jane Hilton about her book Dead Eagle Trail: America’s Twenty-First Century Cowboys. An exhibition of this remarkable work is running for six weeks from the 14th of July at the Crane Kalman Gallery in Brighton. It is superb opportunity to see an original and first-rate exhibition.

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What homosexuality means to football 0

Agent of German captain Michael Ballack talks of a “bunch of gays” in the national team
European News • Der Speigel, Guardian, The Local, Vanity Fair
July 14, 2010
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I am not exactly sure what effect homosexuality has on a man’s ability to play football. Perhaps it makes him lean a little too far to the left. Back in 2008, former Juventus boss Luciano Moggi tried to make sense of it. “A homosexual cannot do the job of a footballer. The football world is not designed for them, it’s a special atmosphere, one in which you stand naked under the showers.” I’m none the wiser. I didn’t realise the showering was so pivotal, even after five seasons of Footballers’ Wives. Schalke boss Rudi Assauer tried another tack a few months ago, “Perhaps they are OK in other sports but not in football.  If a player came to me and said he was gay I would say to him: ‘You have shown courage.’ But then I would tell him to find something else to do.” No activist Assauer, who qualified that he would do so, “because those who out themselves always end up busted by it, ridiculed by their fellow players and by people in the stands. We should spare them these witch-hunts.” He has a point, of course, but that should be their choice. All that said, it is apparently worse than these men suspected according to the agent of Germany’s injured captain, Michael Ballack.

The latest controversy over homosexuality in the world of football started with an interview given by Ballack’s agent Michael Becker a few months before the World Cup. It was reported in an essay by Alexander Osang published in Der Spiegel yesterday. Becker’s problem, and by inference Ballack’s problem, is as much about what it means to be a man as it means to be a footballer. The style of the new German national team is less aggressive, lighter on its feet, as it were. Becker is not thrilled by this. And as Osang points out, this was before the injury for which Ballack was benched, and a time when Ballack was flying high. He had even just been photographed in his underwear for Vanity Fair with four other captains. It is not bitterness speaking.

“He talked a lot about people who were envious of his client, because they were supposedly mediocre, ugly, untalented, bureaucratic, provincial, unmanly or gay,” Osang writes. And Becker said that half the German team were gay, or “half-gay”, whatever that means. “It seemed that every sports journalist was already familiar with the alleged homosexual conspiracy swirling around German coach Joachim Löw’s team,” Osang reports of the lacklustre reaction to these revelations. Conspiracy? What were they planning to do, rewrite the sacred rules of shower time?

Osang deflates Becker’s standing and turns him into a buffoon. “I realized that all of this was somehow synonymous with something Becker could no longer understand. It was something that was light, non-ideological, dance-like, beautiful, joyful, and easily confusing for someone whose life had revolved around pecking orders and hierarchies until then.” Ouch.

So what do the British press make of this? It is always fun to take a look at how the Daily Mail reports on stories that unsettle the assumed prejudices of its readers. (I need to put on sunglasses before heading to its homepage. It’s the Primark of web design.) But there is nothing as of this morning. Time to head to the Sun, the home of much ado about nothing that is equally uneasy on the eye. Thighly Minogue? No. Su Bo’s new hairdo? No. Buried in there is a link to the football index, which is a rogue’s gallery of men who look like they’re sat on the toilet. “Who does number two work for?” The only exception is the lovely Jack Rodwell. So, into the search engine goes the name Michael Ballack. Nothing. Ok then, on to the Daily Mirror. There’s a funny picture of Raoul Moat, the man with a name worthy of an Arthur Conan Doyle villain. He’s wearing make-up and a mini skirt (at least I think that’s what it is) flexing his biceps. There is so much unsaid in the Mirror’s overuse of this image. Yet when I get to the sport index still there is nothing. I’m clearly going to have to come back later to read the great British reaction and, better still, the public graffiti on the comment walls.

It is no great revelation to state that football creates a bond between heterosexual men that is somewhat tribal. Introduce anything else into the arena of how football is portrayed in the media, it would seem, and it starts to raise questions about what it means to be a man. That is what homosexuality has to do with football. And that is why it is so important when a footballer player comes out. The sooner it is visible enough to become a non-issue then the closer we all are to some sort of equality.

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To vote for the Conservative Party is to vote your rights away 0

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To vote for the Conservative party is to vote for bigotry, racism, sexism and homophobia. Vote tactically, vote to keep the Conservative party out of government.

Front Lines: Gay Couple Illegally Turned Away from B&B 0

Gay Couple Turned Away by B&B Owners on Religious Grounds
UK News • BBC, Guardian
March 21, 2010
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Although overshadowed somewhat by the statement “I hate romantic comedies” from Sandra Bullock in an interview this weekend, the story that a gay couple were turned away from a B&B in Cambridgeshire made a significant impact on the world as we know it.

Michael Black and John Morgan were turned away from the B&B by its owner because of their sexuality. This type of discrimination has been illegal since 2007. Susanne Wilkinson, the owner of the B&B, had this to say. “I don’t see why I should change my mind and my beliefs I’ve held for years just because the government should force it on me. I am not a hotel, I am a guest house and this is a private house.”

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Round ‘em up, put ‘em in a field and bomb the bastards! 0

Former General John Sheehan Blames 1995 Massacre on the Presence of Gay Soldiers
US/European news • Guardian
March 19, 2010
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Back in the early 1980s this was the catch phrase of Kenny Everett’s American general: “Round ‘em up, put ‘em in a field and bomb the bastards!” It was his proposed resolution to any “faggy ideas” that “pinko intellectual commies” would put forward. General John Sheehan, who blamed the 1995 Srebrenica massacre on the fact that the Dutch army let the homos in, is the modern day equivalent.

“They declared a peace dividend and made a conscious effort to socialise their military – that includes the unionisation of their militaries, it includes open homosexuality. That led to a force that was ill-equipped to go to war.”

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